Words are cheap and “engaged” is just a word.
Category: Savage Love
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Be the nonbinary lesbian you want to be
On self-identifying, ghosting, and straight men lusting after gay men
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Four reasons why the problem is you
Would you rather listen to a charming guy talk about his cat or a conceited guy drone on about peeing next to a celebrity?
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Typically the sub wears the diapers
On hiding bisexuality, trimming pubic hair, and more
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Letter from the elusive cuckquean
A woman who gets off on her husband or boyfriend sleeping with other women is a black swan.
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Have you spoken to your FinDom adviser about retirement?
A beautiful, complicated, generous, fraught, and compassionate idea
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Minding the age gap
Just because you drove to another state to hook up with a teenager doesn’t mean you weren’t the victim of sexual assault.
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Be the sex-positive perv you want to see in the world
Quickies on sexting, frustrating fantasies, and more
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My boyfriend is obsessed with watching me pee
You’re not indulging a kink, you’re being terrorized.
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Power tripping on Grindr
Is it homophobic for a straight man to tease a thicc bottom boy with dick pics?
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My massage therapist has the hots for me
On ethical violations and two years of practicing withholding semen
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Don’t feel bad about the dick you eat at work
Q: I’m a gay man. After a decade together and five years of marriage, my husband informed me he wasn’t really interested in sex anymore. That was a year ago and we haven’t had sex since. He told me I should leave him, if regular sex was “really that important” to me, but if I […]
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Counseled culture is a real thing
Q: Hello! I am a heterosexual man! My wife came out as a lesbian after 30 years of marriage. We have children together and we love each other. Therefore, we’ve decided not to divorce. We visited some therapists and they all coerced us to divorce, even though we really do not want that. We believe […]
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Full (micropenis) disclosure
Q: I’m a woman who recently went out on a third date with a man. I invited him back to my place and we started making out, which led to him going down on me. Moments later he took off his pants and to my surprise he had a micropenis. I was shocked and turned […]