Category: Savage Love

A beautiful, complicated, generous, fraught, and compassionate idea

Just because you drove to another state to hook up with a teenager doesn’t mean you weren’t the victim of sexual assault.

Is it homophobic for a straight man to tease a thicc bottom boy with dick pics?

On ethical violations and two years of practicing withholding semen

Q: I’m a gay man. After a decade together and five years of marriage, my husband informed me he wasn’t really interested in sex anymore. That was a year ago and we haven’t had sex since. He told me I should leave him, if regular sex was “really that important” to me, but if I […]

Q: Hello! I am a heterosexual man! My wife came out as a lesbian after 30 years of marriage. We have children together and we love each other. Therefore, we’ve decided not to divorce. We visited some therapists and they all coerced us to divorce, even though we really do not want that. We believe […]

Q: I’m a woman who recently went out on a third date with a man. I invited him back to my place and we started making out, which led to him going down on me. Moments later he took off his pants and to my surprise he had a micropenis. I was shocked and turned […]