Investigating one man’s failure to romantically attach to a vacation rando
Category: Savage Love
Pride, prejudice, and the ‘bamboo cage’
On giving thought to the cultural forces that may have shaped “preferences”
Renegotiating limits during a scene is never OK
On bad Doms, fluid pronouns, and identifying as bisexual
Listen to your friends and your therapist
Plus, why the logistics of a threesome matter
Tugging does not mean yanking!
What happens when your laptop dies and your Instagram followers have questions
Frayed nerves because of freysexual ‘lover’
A committed romantic partner can’t have sex with people they love
Bewjeweled butt plugs and the war on abortion
This is a column about worries.
My wife has ‘new relationship energy’ with her girlfriend
Agreeing to a one-sided open relationship is not the same as agreeing to one-sided polyamory.
My wife wakes up at 3 AM to masturbate
Quickies on topping, whipped cream, and chastity cages
I put my husband in a sleepsack and play video games
A kinky reader worries about accidental death on “storage nights”
Turn that pelvic frown upside down
And why you shouldn’t give your money to Gertrude
Forever vs. now
I’ve always thought of this column (and my podcast) as a conversation I’m having with friends about our love and/or sex lives after we’d had a few drinks. (Or, these days, shared an edible.)
Searching for answers
I get a lotta unsolicited dick pics in my line of work—not complaining, just saying—and half the dicks I see in any given week have pubes. So, there are plenty of naturally hairy guys out there for you to choose from.
Age-old problems
It’s important that you’re feeling aroused—not feeling dread—when your lover is on his way over.