Investigating one man’s failure to romantically attach to a vacation rando
Category: Savage Love
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Pride, prejudice, and the ‘bamboo cage’
On giving thought to the cultural forces that may have shaped “preferences”
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Renegotiating limits during a scene is never OK
On bad Doms, fluid pronouns, and identifying as bisexual
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Listen to your friends and your therapist
Plus, why the logistics of a threesome matter
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Tugging does not mean yanking!
What happens when your laptop dies and your Instagram followers have questions
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Frayed nerves because of freysexual ‘lover’
A committed romantic partner can’t have sex with people they love
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Bewjeweled butt plugs and the war on abortion
This is a column about worries.
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My wife has ‘new relationship energy’ with her girlfriend
Agreeing to a one-sided open relationship is not the same as agreeing to one-sided polyamory.
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My wife wakes up at 3 AM to masturbate
Quickies on topping, whipped cream, and chastity cages
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I put my husband in a sleepsack and play video games
A kinky reader worries about accidental death on “storage nights”
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Turn that pelvic frown upside down
And why you shouldn’t give your money to Gertrude
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Forever vs. now
I’ve always thought of this column (and my podcast) as a conversation I’m having with friends about our love and/or sex lives after we’d had a few drinks. (Or, these days, shared an edible.)
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Searching for answers
I get a lotta unsolicited dick pics in my line of work—not complaining, just saying—and half the dicks I see in any given week have pubes. So, there are plenty of naturally hairy guys out there for you to choose from.
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Age-old problems
It’s important that you’re feeling aroused—not feeling dread—when your lover is on his way over.
