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Home » Columns & Opinion » Savage Love

Category: Savage Love

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Just the facts

by Dan Savage November 7, 2022November 7, 2022

The monkeypox vaccine and a change to this column

Posted inColumns & Opinion

A threesome is probably safer than a shower

by Dan Savage October 26, 2022October 26, 2022

Nonmonogamous dads, swapping holes, and more answers to your burning questions

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Can an orgasm kill me?

by Dan Savage October 19, 2022October 26, 2022

On slamming headaches and “left behind” sperm cells

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Why would a survivor of sexual trauma want D/s kink?

by Dan Savage October 12, 2022February 16, 2023

Some who have submissive desires and traumatic sexual histories find BDSM therapeutic.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Should I just enjoy the attention while I’m young?

by Dan Savage October 4, 2022October 12, 2022

Some guys just see me as their gay Black fantasy come to life.

Posted inSavage Love

My wife slut-shames me when I ask to hook up with someone else

by Dan Savage September 29, 2022October 12, 2022

She might just be annoyed.

Posted inSavage Love

The ass ceiling

by Dan Savage September 23, 2022September 24, 2022

An untouchable butt, NPR during sex, and more quickies

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Do straight guys send each other dick pics?

by Dan Savage September 15, 2022March 2, 2023

A relationship defined by sketchy behavior, gaslighting, and snooping

Posted inColumns & Opinion

School me once

by Dan Savage September 7, 2022September 22, 2022

A small-town teacher just wants someone to go down on her.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

You can’t smother romantic feelings

by Dan Savage August 31, 2022August 31, 2022

While he’s hosting your birthday party and playing with your testicles, he is not your boyfriend.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

My wife thinks I’m using memes to look at porn

by Dan Savage August 24, 2022August 31, 2022

Am I being jerked around?

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Hike the beaten path, don’t get off on it

by Dan Savage August 22, 2022August 26, 2022

Hemorrhoids, cock rings, and more quickies

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Really though, how risky is choking play?

by Dan Savage August 16, 2022August 16, 2022

Windpipes are quite vulnerable to injury.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What does it mean to be a cuckquean?

by Dan Savage August 10, 2022August 10, 2022

Many words describe letting your partner have sex with other people.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Pretty Boy is the finest thing, but maybe he should be set on fire

by Dan Savage August 1, 2022August 1, 2022

He engages in rough sex knowing it’s sometimes painful.

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