A series of hot threesomes might revive your sex life.
On being attracted to people with penises and also being extremely not into penises
The best edible for weed and more quickies
Investigating one man’s failure to romantically attach to a vacation rando
On giving thought to the cultural forces that may have shaped “preferences”
On bad Doms, fluid pronouns, and identifying as bisexual
Plus, why the logistics of a threesome matter
What happens when your laptop dies and your Instagram followers have questions
A committed romantic partner can’t have sex with people they love
This is a column about worries.
Agreeing to a one-sided open relationship is not the same as agreeing to one-sided polyamory.
Quickies on topping, whipped cream, and chastity cages
A kinky reader worries about accidental death on “storage nights”
And why you shouldn’t give your money to Gertrude
I’ve always thought of this column (and my podcast) as a conversation I’m having with friends about our love and/or sex lives after we’d had a few drinks. (Or, these days, shared an edible.)