Straight men question what it means to be heterosexual.
How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
A woman wonders how much to reveal to a beau. Plus: Can anal sex can ever be pleasurable for women?
What’s a Jacks-club-loving boss to do? Plus: etiquette for Italian hookups and open marriages
When Chicago rapper Taylor Bennett was a teenager, one of his havens was Navy Pier. And this weekend, he’ll make himself at home onstage at Lollapalooza.
Dan Savage provides a plan of action for a water sports enthusiast, and more.
Dan advises an out lesbian interested in a coworker, a sixtysomething would-be lesbian, and more.
Dan Savage advises a young woman on her first “trio rodeo,” and more.
Conversion therapy aimed at “curing” queer kids is harmful, fraudulent, and discredited, no matter who’s practicing it.
Dan Savage and guests counsel a queer man of color who feels excluded from the ‘white-painted gay community’ and an Italian bisexual concerned about fidelity.
Dan Savage advises a gay male gymnast whose kink has left him with a memento, and a newly declared bisexual suffering from coming-out remorse.
Dan Savage offers advice on retraining one’s dick, restraining one’s jealousy, and being restrained when one’s prone to the wrong sort of spasm.
Dan Savage advises a former rope bondage top, a husband with specialized tastes in lube, a bondage widower, and more
Dan Savage fields audience questions from a live appearance in Seattle.
Dan offers advice on playing a unicorn and rounding up a herd of them.