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Home » bisexuality

Tag: bisexuality

Posted inColumns & Opinion

To fist or not to fist

by Dan Savage September 11, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a concerned party whose roommate has strange men over to fist him every day, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Please tell me where I can find my porn!’

by Dan Savage January 3, 2019August 18, 2021

How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Should she tell the man she’s seeing about her new job as an escort?

by Dan Savage November 27, 2018August 18, 2021

A woman wonders how much to reveal to a beau. Plus: Can anal sex can ever be pleasurable for women?

Posted inColumns & Opinion

She’s bi herself. Why is she so threatened by her boyfriend’s bisexuality?

by Dan Savage February 21, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan calls on experts to address insecurity and biphobia. Plus: what to do if kink’s not for you

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Was I wrong to cross-dress?’

by Dan Savage August 2, 2017August 18, 2021

A “hall pass” puts a husband in the crosshairs. Plus: to come out or not to come out; having your heels and dating too

Posted inColumns & Opinion

The p’s and q’s of Grindr

by Dan Savage June 1, 2017August 18, 2021

How not to be an asshole on the hookup app. Plus: analyze this, finesse that

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Does childbirth commonly change women’s ability to orgasm?

by Dan Savage May 17, 2017August 18, 2021

A PIV-focused husband wants to know. Plus: a closeted bisexual’s dilemma, and a couple hard-core alternatives to Viagra

Posted inColumns & Opinion

When there’s incompatibility in the bedroom

by Dan Savage April 12, 2017August 18, 2021

Should you just suck it up or what? Plus: not “secretly gay” but “actually bi”

Posted inColumns & Opinion

How do you deal with jealousy in an open relationship?

by Dan Savage December 31, 2015August 18, 2021

Plus: sharing a sub, playing safely on the road

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF

by Dan Savage September 25, 2015August 18, 2021

Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?

"Guess what? The American people weren’t pissed at Clinton. People looked at what was being done to Clinton and thought, 'Jesus fucking Christ, I would hate to have my privacy invaded like that.'"
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love takes a lesson from Bill and Monica

by Dan Savage November 27, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a bi male suddenly, publicly outed and a couple not yet ready for couples therapy.

"I would say there was nothing wrong if I could just lick feet to get the relationship a bit more 'spicy,' but the problem is that I think I can't excite myself the 'traditional way.'"
Posted inColumns & Opinion

A virgin’s fetish leaves him with cold feet

by Dan Savage October 9, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a foot fetishist in the grips of a false dichotomy, a young Italian after his friend’s bi girlfriend, and a bi minor in need of some metamedical counsel.

"There's no settling down without settling for, and that applies to bisexual and monosexuals, monogamists and polyamorists."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Poly bisexual ISO monogamy

by Dan Savage September 18, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a monogamously inclined unicorn, a gay guy with a shady past, and a reader attracted to twentysomethings with cochlear implants.

"If your inner life amounts to a double life, that’s a problem."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Paying for sex as geezerdom looms

by Dan Savage April 10, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on paying for sex as geezerdom sets in, leading on a fortysomething you find unfuckable, and the etiquette of thrill seeking.

"I've never made the first move with girls."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Keep calm and introduce yourself

by Dan Savage February 27, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on dealing with anger issues, exploring bisexuality without offending the boyfriend, and working kinks into a new relationship.

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