Dan Savage advises a concerned party whose roommate has strange men over to fist him every day, and more.
Tag: bisexuality
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‘Please tell me where I can find my porn!’
How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
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Should she tell the man she’s seeing about her new job as an escort?
A woman wonders how much to reveal to a beau. Plus: Can anal sex can ever be pleasurable for women?
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She’s bi herself. Why is she so threatened by her boyfriend’s bisexuality?
Dan calls on experts to address insecurity and biphobia. Plus: what to do if kink’s not for you
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‘Was I wrong to cross-dress?’
A “hall pass” puts a husband in the crosshairs. Plus: to come out or not to come out; having your heels and dating too
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The p’s and q’s of Grindr
How not to be an asshole on the hookup app. Plus: analyze this, finesse that
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Does childbirth commonly change women’s ability to orgasm?
A PIV-focused husband wants to know. Plus: a closeted bisexual’s dilemma, and a couple hard-core alternatives to Viagra
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When there’s incompatibility in the bedroom
Should you just suck it up or what? Plus: not “secretly gay” but “actually bi”
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How do you deal with jealousy in an open relationship?
Plus: sharing a sub, playing safely on the road
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What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?
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Savage Love takes a lesson from Bill and Monica
Dan Savage advises a bi male suddenly, publicly outed and a couple not yet ready for couples therapy.
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A virgin’s fetish leaves him with cold feet
Dan Savage advises a foot fetishist in the grips of a false dichotomy, a young Italian after his friend’s bi girlfriend, and a bi minor in need of some metamedical counsel.
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Poly bisexual ISO monogamy
Dan Savage advises a monogamously inclined unicorn, a gay guy with a shady past, and a reader attracted to twentysomethings with cochlear implants.
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Paying for sex as geezerdom looms
Dan on paying for sex as geezerdom sets in, leading on a fortysomething you find unfuckable, and the etiquette of thrill seeking.
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Keep calm and introduce yourself
Dan on dealing with anger issues, exploring bisexuality without offending the boyfriend, and working kinks into a new relationship.