Dan Savage advises a concerned party whose roommate has strange men over to fist him every day, and more.
Tag: bisexuality
‘Please tell me where I can find my porn!’
How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
Should she tell the man she’s seeing about her new job as an escort?
A woman wonders how much to reveal to a beau. Plus: Can anal sex can ever be pleasurable for women?
She’s bi herself. Why is she so threatened by her boyfriend’s bisexuality?
Dan calls on experts to address insecurity and biphobia. Plus: what to do if kink’s not for you
‘Was I wrong to cross-dress?’
A “hall pass” puts a husband in the crosshairs. Plus: to come out or not to come out; having your heels and dating too
The p’s and q’s of Grindr
How not to be an asshole on the hookup app. Plus: analyze this, finesse that
Does childbirth commonly change women’s ability to orgasm?
A PIV-focused husband wants to know. Plus: a closeted bisexual’s dilemma, and a couple hard-core alternatives to Viagra
When there’s incompatibility in the bedroom
Should you just suck it up or what? Plus: not “secretly gay” but “actually bi”
How do you deal with jealousy in an open relationship?
Plus: sharing a sub, playing safely on the road
What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?
Savage Love takes a lesson from Bill and Monica
Dan Savage advises a bi male suddenly, publicly outed and a couple not yet ready for couples therapy.
A virgin’s fetish leaves him with cold feet
Dan Savage advises a foot fetishist in the grips of a false dichotomy, a young Italian after his friend’s bi girlfriend, and a bi minor in need of some metamedical counsel.
Poly bisexual ISO monogamy
Dan Savage advises a monogamously inclined unicorn, a gay guy with a shady past, and a reader attracted to twentysomethings with cochlear implants.
Paying for sex as geezerdom looms
Dan on paying for sex as geezerdom sets in, leading on a fortysomething you find unfuckable, and the etiquette of thrill seeking.
Keep calm and introduce yourself
Dan on dealing with anger issues, exploring bisexuality without offending the boyfriend, and working kinks into a new relationship.