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How not to be that professor
Dan Savage reads the riot act to a professor sleeping with former students, and more.
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Teach your children well
Advice for parents of precocious bondage enthusiasts, and more.
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Shy gay man seeks secret password to sexual adventure
Dan Savage recruits an expert to advise a shy gay man who feels he’s stuck on the outside looking in.
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What to do if your soul mate refuses to leave his wife
Dan’s tips for pumping the brakes and breaking up
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‘I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me’
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
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‘Help, my Recon hookup said no thanks after I’d blown $40 on rope and duct tape!’
Dan advises a disappointed NYC dom, a GGG woman who doesn’t “get” cuckolding, and more
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Is it legal to have a bondage-only encounter with a professional dom?
Dan Savage advises a nonsexual submissive. Plus: “Lola” come to life, Puppetry of the Penis, stanky private parts
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Is cuckoldry wrong?
Dan Savage advises a guilty cuckold wannabe, an apprehensive cuckqueen, and more
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What to do when a high school teacher sends dick pics
Dan Savage advises the recipient of dick pics from a former high school teacher and a guy concerned that spanking might tip into abuse.
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Kinkster confidential
Dan Savage advises a former rope bondage top, a husband with specialized tastes in lube, a bondage widower, and more
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How to legally find someone to have sex with (in Michigan)
Dan Savage advises the son of a 65-year-old father who hasn’t had sex in 30 years and a 20-year-old dude who isn’t getting much either.
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The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble
Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage
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Feminism and fetishism: The origins of Wonder Woman
The superheroine’s early years would make one hell of a movie.
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Keeping the faith
Dan on staying faithful, exploring BDSM without the sex, and embarking on a fantasy facial