The culture tells us cheating is a relationship-extinction-level event.
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.
Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.
Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!
Dan Savage counsels a married letter writer into flirting with her ex-husband, and more.
Dan Savage confronts a critic, advises a POS, and more.
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
Dan Savage advises a separated wife, a frustrated man, and more.
Or should this self-described cheating piece of shit fess up? Plus: racialized sex fantasies and some tough love from Uncle Dan
A wife wants her husband snipped—or else. Plus: a solution for the sexually fickle, a possible dastardly dick, and a self-described straight 64-year-old who wants to try “the gay side of life”
Sexlessness leads to restlessness. Plus: advice for a would-be adviser, tips for the would-be bottom
Two cheaters and a fickle young cad fess up to bad behavior.
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?