The culture tells us cheating is a relationship-extinction-level event.
Tag: cheating
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School for sexual scoundrels
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
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‘Help, I’m a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
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‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag
Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.
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A serial adulterer makes a case for himself, and gets reamed
Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.
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How to get laid without freaking out
Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!
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Can a heavy flirtation with an ex be justified?
Dan Savage counsels a married letter writer into flirting with her ex-husband, and more.
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What happened to the early, funny Savage Love columnist?
Dan Savage confronts a critic, advises a POS, and more.
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No sparks, no soap, no sex—what’s a nice guy to do?
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
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Is my husband having sex with other women?
Dan Savage advises a separated wife, a frustrated man, and more.
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Should a guilt-plagued CPOS keep his mouth shut?
Or should this self-described cheating piece of shit fess up? Plus: racialized sex fantasies and some tough love from Uncle Dan
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No vasectomy, no more open marriage?
A wife wants her husband snipped—or else. Plus: a solution for the sexually fickle, a possible dastardly dick, and a self-described straight 64-year-old who wants to try “the gay side of life”
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He’s got cheatin’ on his mind . . .
Sexlessness leads to restlessness. Plus: advice for a would-be adviser, tips for the would-be bottom
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How not to be an asshole
Two cheaters and a fickle young cad fess up to bad behavior.
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What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?