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Home » cheating

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

If I’m in love, then why do I want to sleep with a hot barista?

by Dan Savage July 23, 2020August 18, 2021

The culture tells us cheating is a relationship-extinction-level event.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

School for sexual scoundrels

by Dan Savage October 23, 2019August 18, 2021

How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I’m a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’

by Dan Savage October 10, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag

by Dan Savage August 29, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

A serial adulterer makes a case for himself, and gets reamed

by Dan Savage April 25, 2018August 18, 2021

Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

How to get laid without freaking out

by Dan Savage April 11, 2018August 18, 2021

Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Can a heavy flirtation with an ex be justified?

by Dan Savage January 4, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage counsels a married letter writer into flirting with her ex-husband, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What happened to the early, funny Savage Love columnist?

by Dan Savage December 6, 2017August 18, 2021

Dan Savage confronts a critic, advises a POS, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

No sparks, no soap, no sex—what’s a nice guy to do?

by Dan Savage November 29, 2017August 18, 2021

Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Is my husband having sex with other women?

by Dan Savage September 13, 2017August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a separated wife, a frustrated man, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Should a guilt-plagued CPOS keep his mouth shut?

by Dan Savage September 29, 2016August 18, 2021

Or should this self-described cheating piece of shit fess up? Plus: racialized sex fantasies and some tough love from Uncle Dan

Posted inColumns & Opinion

No vasectomy, no more open marriage?

by Dan Savage September 22, 2016August 18, 2021

A wife wants her husband snipped—or else. Plus: a solution for the sexually fickle, a possible dastardly dick, and a self-described straight 64-year-old who wants to try “the gay side of life”

Posted inColumns & Opinion

He’s got cheatin’ on his mind . . .

by Dan Savage October 8, 2015August 18, 2021

Sexlessness leads to restlessness. Plus: advice for a would-be adviser, tips for the would-be bottom

Posted inColumns & Opinion

How not to be an asshole

by Dan Savage October 2, 2015August 18, 2021

Two cheaters and a fickle young cad fess up to bad behavior.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF

by Dan Savage September 25, 2015August 18, 2021

Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?

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