The culture tells us cheating is a relationship-extinction-level event.
Tag: cheating
School for sexual scoundrels
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
‘Help, I’m a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag
Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.
A serial adulterer makes a case for himself, and gets reamed
Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.
How to get laid without freaking out
Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!
Can a heavy flirtation with an ex be justified?
Dan Savage counsels a married letter writer into flirting with her ex-husband, and more.
What happened to the early, funny Savage Love columnist?
Dan Savage confronts a critic, advises a POS, and more.
No sparks, no soap, no sex—what’s a nice guy to do?
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
Is my husband having sex with other women?
Dan Savage advises a separated wife, a frustrated man, and more.
Should a guilt-plagued CPOS keep his mouth shut?
Or should this self-described cheating piece of shit fess up? Plus: racialized sex fantasies and some tough love from Uncle Dan
No vasectomy, no more open marriage?
A wife wants her husband snipped—or else. Plus: a solution for the sexually fickle, a possible dastardly dick, and a self-described straight 64-year-old who wants to try “the gay side of life”
He’s got cheatin’ on his mind . . .
Sexlessness leads to restlessness. Plus: advice for a would-be adviser, tips for the would-be bottom
How not to be an asshole
Two cheaters and a fickle young cad fess up to bad behavior.
What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?