“We live in a world that for the most part still doesn’t acknowledge that trans people exist.”
Bea Cordelia thinks the city’s liquor-license law has a gender-bias problem.
Dan Savage advises a husband frustrated with female sexuality, a lesbian not attracted to transwomen, and a gay guy whose wiring has his insecure partner feeling inadequate.
Dan on navigating the precarious friends-with-benefits boundaries, getting off without having to get on top, and compromising with your wife about your lingerie fetish.
Dan on slut self-shaming, a misplaced cock ring, and a misleading online lesbian