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Home » clitoris

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t

by Dan Savage March 2, 2017August 18, 2021

Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

When your partner is ‘one of those women’

by Dan Savage May 14, 2015August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a husband frustrated with female sexuality, a lesbian not attracted to transwomen, and a gay guy whose wiring has his insecure partner feeling inadequate.

"If hearing about a crazy kink inspired otherwise vanilla types to run out and try it, we’d all be shoving gerbils in our asses."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble

by Dan Savage November 20, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage

"The criminal-justice system is rough on sex workers generally, and it’s absolutely brutal to trans women who do sex work."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Just make the call

by Dan Savage June 5, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on being an unwilling receptionist for a trans sex worker, showing some patience before jumping into anal sex, and retraining a dick.

"There are other giant dicks out there."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Truly a dick move

by Dan Savage May 29, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on going for the big dick, confronting your hyperconservative mother, and playing poker in the sack.

"It involves my bowel movements, so it's not very sexy."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Moist toilette

by Dan Savage March 6, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on postpoop-gasms, a pee-shy boyfriend refusing to unlock the bathroom door, and a stepson who leaves a few drops of spooge behind.

"The clitoris is not a joy buzzer at the top of the vaginal canal."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Finger-blast from the past

by Dan Savage December 26, 2013August 19, 2021

An archival Savage Love on the importance of the clitoris

"I feel like the whole context was incredibly toxic and hurtful, especially him airing our dirty laundry to his friends."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Spoiler alert: Everybody dies

by Dan Savage October 17, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan on various aspects of mourning etiquette.

"Why can't I meet more men like me?"
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Terrible person wonders why he can’t get a date

by Dan Savage September 26, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan on the particular dating challenges faced by major jerks, a girlfriend with a missing clitoris, and more

A sordid affair
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The love doctor is in

by Dan Savage January 31, 2013August 18, 2021

Finding a sex-positive therapist. Plus: How to cheat gracefully.

Brian McKnight explains this visual metaphor.
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Squirting next to/in front of/on your boyfriend

by Dan Savage April 25, 2012August 19, 2021

Dan on handling hookups, plus being comfortable enough to squirt on your boyfriend

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