Dan Savage reads the riot act to a professor sleeping with former students, and more.
Tag: consent
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Quickies
Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.
Posted inNews & Politics
Sexual miseducation
In an era of unprecedented attention to gender violence, Latinx organizers demand CPS address shortcomings.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Furry porn, cuckolding, water sports
Advice on navigating consent and pleasure
Posted inMusic
Our Music My Body wants conversations about harassment and consent to include the concert scene
Folks who’d like to volunteer with the Our Music My Body campaign can attend a free training this weekend in the Loop.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Sixty-two and wondering what to settle for sexually after a new partner turns out to prefer his own hand
Is it so wrong to want to be desired? Plus: yes, women can be cuckolds, and more
Posted inColumns & Opinion
No sparks, no soap, no sex—what’s a nice guy to do?
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
Posted inColumns & Opinion
When SPH invites DTMFA . . .
Dan Savage advises a man whose partner wants to “humiliate” him about his “small pee-pee, and more.”
Posted inColumns & Opinion
‘What is the appropriate amount of side boob?’
Dan Savage answers this and other burning questions from a live appearance in San Francisco.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Don’t call her a cougar!
But is she an escape hatch? Plus: crazy sleazy starts and joyless marital sex
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Blurring the hookup
Dan on giving and acknowledging consent, resuscitating a dead sex life, and rolling with the kinks.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Negotiating teenage polyamory
Dan on “yes means yes”—and knowing how to say “no”
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Should I feel guilty about my spanking kink?
Dan Savage counsels a man into spanking now involved with a woman who was formerly abused, a woman who’s longtime boyfriend had a one-night stand with someone much younger, and a young woman avid to learn about BDSM.
Posted inBlogs
Internal Affairs: How Ayn Rand Followers Rationalize “Welcomed” Rape
How Ayn Rand’s young followers react to her less-than-consensual sex scenes.
Posted inBlogs
Deconstructing Rape Myths: On Short Skirts (On Lesbians)
Why rape is not one big misunderstanding.