Dan Savage reads the riot act to a professor sleeping with former students, and more.
Tag: consent
Quickies
Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.
Sexual miseducation
In an era of unprecedented attention to gender violence, Latinx organizers demand CPS address shortcomings.
Furry porn, cuckolding, water sports
Advice on navigating consent and pleasure
Our Music My Body wants conversations about harassment and consent to include the concert scene
Folks who’d like to volunteer with the Our Music My Body campaign can attend a free training this weekend in the Loop.
Sixty-two and wondering what to settle for sexually after a new partner turns out to prefer his own hand
Is it so wrong to want to be desired? Plus: yes, women can be cuckolds, and more
No sparks, no soap, no sex—what’s a nice guy to do?
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
When SPH invites DTMFA . . .
Dan Savage advises a man whose partner wants to “humiliate” him about his “small pee-pee, and more.”
‘What is the appropriate amount of side boob?’
Dan Savage answers this and other burning questions from a live appearance in San Francisco.
Don’t call her a cougar!
But is she an escape hatch? Plus: crazy sleazy starts and joyless marital sex
Blurring the hookup
Dan on giving and acknowledging consent, resuscitating a dead sex life, and rolling with the kinks.
Negotiating teenage polyamory
Dan on “yes means yes”—and knowing how to say “no”
Should I feel guilty about my spanking kink?
Dan Savage counsels a man into spanking now involved with a woman who was formerly abused, a woman who’s longtime boyfriend had a one-night stand with someone much younger, and a young woman avid to learn about BDSM.
Internal Affairs: How Ayn Rand Followers Rationalize “Welcomed” Rape
How Ayn Rand’s young followers react to her less-than-consensual sex scenes.
Deconstructing Rape Myths: On Short Skirts (On Lesbians)
Why rape is not one big misunderstanding.