A manifesto renouncing male-centered Get It Over With sex, and more.
Dan advises a liberal dude worried about the implications of his GF’s self-professed “thing for Black guys,” and more.
Advice on navigating consent and pleasure
Dan advises the potential beneficiaries of this and other “things.” Plus: the fetish even an ob-gyn hadn’t heard of
Dan Savage advises a woman aroused by fantasies of humiliating others, and one fed up with her husband’s demands for public sex.
A special election edition
Can GOP leaders and voters make up?
How to safely realize a ‘rape fantasy.” Plus: Can you have a fetish you hate?