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Home » Debby Herbenick

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

Ask a Kinsey Institute expert: Can cycling damage the clit?

by Dan Savage October 6, 2016August 18, 2021

Plus: VULVA’s vexing condition could be outside her gynecologist’s scope.

"I don't even let my long-term boyfriend go down on me because I'm afraid he'll think it’s gross and ugly."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Learning to love your long labia

by Dan Savage December 4, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises women respectively appalled by long labia, into butts but not buttholes, and less than thrilled by a boyfriend’s dream of golden showers.

"It involves my bowel movements, so it's not very sexy."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Moist toilette

by Dan Savage March 6, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on postpoop-gasms, a pee-shy boyfriend refusing to unlock the bathroom door, and a stepson who leaves a few drops of spooge behind.

"Why can't I meet more men like me?"
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Terrible person wonders why he can’t get a date

by Dan Savage September 26, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan on the particular dating challenges faced by major jerks, a girlfriend with a missing clitoris, and more

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