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My boyfriend just wants to be tied up, called names, and hurt

A conversation about kinks

Dan Savage counsels a married letter writer into flirting with her ex-husband, and more.

Dan advises a married woman desperate for enthusiastic oral and a female victim of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome.

Dan advises a lad with a nappie fetish and a lady with a lad problem.

Tomorrow Never Knows music fest: now with stand-up

Plus: tips for dealing with blow job bestowers, when vaginal sex is a big nothing

Crystal Castles, Lykke Li, Black Lips, and more.