Dan Savage on behaving nicely in sexual settings, and more
Dan’s tips for pumping the brakes and breaking up
Quick hits on kinks and consent. Plus: a short not sweet DTMFA.
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more
Dan Savage advises a woman aroused by fantasies of humiliating others, and one fed up with her husband’s demands for public sex.
Dan Savage advises a man whose partner wants to “humiliate” him about his “small pee-pee, and more.”
What to do. Plus: a “GGG” clarification
Dan Savage offers advice on what to do with used dildos, suggestions for apps that can help keep you safe during hookups, and more.
Dan Savage issues another DTMFA directive, plus bondage with a baby on board and marriage sans sex for 11 years and counting
Help! I’m turned on by homophobic degradation porn
“Someone telling me that God hates me is about as hurtful as someone telling me that the Blue Fairy thinks I look fat in these jeans.”