A conversation about kinks
Plus, advice for a man who just wants his wife to wear a fake cast.
With his next album, Roy Kinsey wants to make the music he wishes he’d heard as a young queer man of color.
Inside the world of “beautifully shot, ethically made, and sexy smut.”
Dan Savage advises an infuriated wife, and more.
Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more
Plus: An underwear-foot fetish, and a woman wants more from her prudish husband.
Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage
Dan on navigating the precarious friends-with-benefits boundaries, getting off without having to get on top, and compromising with your wife about your lingerie fetish.
Dan on a budding diaper fetishist and a pretty unimpressive deformity.
The Leather Rose Association shows us its spanking bench, standing steel cage, and other bondage furniture.
Finding a sex-positive therapist. Plus: How to cheat gracefully.
Dan on public displays of kink and anal-sex reciprocity
Plus: She’s got a tough decision to make, and hey, fisting, can be awesome
Plus: How to get over her fear of penises, accommodating an odd fetish, and life as a sexual tourist