A conversation about kinks
Tag: fetish
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Should I treat my throat like a Fleshlight?
Plus, advice for a man who just wants his wife to wear a fake cast.
Posted inMusic
Rapbrarian Roy Kinsey finds his voice in queer hip-hop
With his next album, Roy Kinsey wants to make the music he wishes he’d heard as a young queer man of color.
Posted inFilm
Meet the new pornographers who want to make adult entertainment better for everyone
Inside the world of “beautifully shot, ethically made, and sexy smut.”
Posted inColumns & Opinion
‘Help, I’m afraid my disgusting adult baby husband may choose his diapers over me!’
Dan Savage advises an infuriated wife, and more.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
‘Should I be worried about STDs from oral sex?’
Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more
Posted inColumns & Opinion
The key to actualizing sexual fantasies? Acknowledging them.
Plus: An underwear-foot fetish, and a woman wants more from her prudish husband.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble
Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Boundary disputes
Dan on navigating the precarious friends-with-benefits boundaries, getting off without having to get on top, and compromising with your wife about your lingerie fetish.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Should parents Pamper a diaper swiper?
Dan on a budding diaper fetishist and a pretty unimpressive deformity.
Posted inArts & Culture
Show us your . . . BDSM dungeon
The Leather Rose Association shows us its spanking bench, standing steel cage, and other bondage furniture.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
The love doctor is in
Finding a sex-positive therapist. Plus: How to cheat gracefully.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Folsom Street Blues
Dan on public displays of kink and anal-sex reciprocity
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Savage Love: So what kind of porn can a future doctor do?
Plus: She’s got a tough decision to make, and hey, fisting, can be awesome
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Savage Love: How Can Breast Milk be Sexy?
Plus: How to get over her fear of penises, accommodating an odd fetish, and life as a sexual tourist