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Home » fetish

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

My boyfriend just wants to be tied up, called names, and hurt

by Dan Savage June 29, 2020August 18, 2021

A conversation about kinks

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Should I treat my throat like a Fleshlight?

by Dan Savage March 5, 2020August 18, 2021

Plus, advice for a man who just wants his wife to wear a fake cast.

Posted inMusic

Rapbrarian Roy Kinsey finds his voice in queer hip-hop

by Leor Galil December 10, 2019August 18, 2021

With his next album, Roy Kinsey wants to make the music he wishes he’d heard as a young queer man of color.

Posted inFilm

Meet the new pornographers who want to make adult entertainment better for everyone

by S. Nicole Lane May 8, 2019April 5, 2022

Inside the world of “beautifully shot, ethically made, and sexy smut.”

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I’m afraid my disgusting adult baby husband may choose his diapers over me!’

by Dan Savage June 6, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises an infuriated wife, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Should I be worried about STDs from oral sex?’

by Dan Savage February 28, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

The key to actualizing sexual fantasies? Acknowledging them.

by Dan Savage February 23, 2017August 18, 2021

Plus: An underwear-foot fetish, and a woman wants more from her prudish husband.

"If hearing about a crazy kink inspired otherwise vanilla types to run out and try it, we’d all be shoving gerbils in our asses."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble

by Dan Savage November 20, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage

"Friends-with-benefits arrangements may not be committed relationships, but they are relationships."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Boundary disputes

by Dan Savage May 8, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on navigating the precarious friends-with-benefits boundaries, getting off without having to get on top, and compromising with your wife about your lingerie fetish.

"Is your stepson a diaper perv? Maybe he is, maybe he isn't."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Should parents Pamper a diaper swiper?

by Dan Savage August 22, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan on a budding diaper fetishist and a pretty unimpressive deformity.

The Leather Rose Association has around two dozen pieces of equipment in its dungeon, including a spanking bench.
Posted inArts & Culture

Show us your . . . BDSM dungeon

by Gwynedd Stuart March 20, 2013August 19, 2021

The Leather Rose Association shows us its spanking bench, standing steel cage, and other bondage furniture.

A sordid affair
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The love doctor is in

by Dan Savage January 31, 2013August 18, 2021

Finding a sex-positive therapist. Plus: How to cheat gracefully.

Fulsome fun at the Folsom Street Fair
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Folsom Street Blues

by Dan Savage September 26, 2012August 19, 2021

Dan on public displays of kink and anal-sex reciprocity

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love: So what kind of porn can a future doctor do?

by Dan Savage June 23, 2011August 19, 2021

Plus: She’s got a tough decision to make, and hey, fisting, can be awesome

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love: How Can Breast Milk be Sexy?

by Dan Savage April 21, 2011August 19, 2021

Plus: How to get over her fear of penises, accommodating an odd fetish, and life as a sexual tourist

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