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Wannabe face sittees need not apply—no really
Quick hits on kinks and consent. Plus: a short not sweet DTMFA.
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‘I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me’
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
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Constructive Advice Thoughtfully Sought by a gay young adult
A primer on pet-play fetishes. Plus: what do when your weed dealer pulls a Louis C.K., and more
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‘How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming scene?’
Amp from Watts the Safeword and two other experts advise. Plus: “I’m straight. Can I still be a bear?” and more
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Young, married, religious: How can I get a blow job already?
A cry for help. Plus: A cry from the opposite side, a modern Caligula, and more
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Ask and ye shall receive: Concise advice to prolix questions
Told to zip it, Dan Savage does his best to.
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A friendly guide to hosting an all-girl sex party . . .
Dan Savage calls on an expert to address the etiquette of hosting a girls-only sex party.
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Can a case of mono spoil your sex drive for good?
Dan Savage advises a soldier who fears mono has permanently affected his sex drive and offers some guidance about munches.
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Help for the bad girl in need of a good spanking
Dan Savage on how to find a good spanker, Jian Ghomeshi and his predilections, and a foursome involving brothers and sisters-in-law.
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Uncle Dan’s grab bag
Dan Savage advises an uncircumcised premature ejaculator, a wannabe cuckolding wife, a horny sexagenarian whose “little brown prince” won’t have sex with him, and more
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An erotic profile, plus Pokemon
Dan on Pokemon fetishism, spanking porn, and getting back at your sanctimonious mother.
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So I had casual sex with an ax murderer
Dan (and Rob Delaney!) on dating with depression, one-night-stand safety, and diaper play.
Posted inArts & Culture
A portrait of the artists (OK, that might be a stretch) as 18-year-old porno directors
A portrait of the artists (OK, that might be a stretch) as 18-year-old porno directors
Posted inBlogs
Not so hideous kinky: A conversation with photographer Gracie Hagen
The Chicago photographer explores the world of fetish.