The swinging lifestyle creates solace and friendship for those seeking sexual freedom.
Quick hits on kinks and consent. Plus: a short not sweet DTMFA.
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
A primer on pet-play fetishes. Plus: what do when your weed dealer pulls a Louis C.K., and more
Amp from Watts the Safeword and two other experts advise. Plus: “I’m straight. Can I still be a bear?” and more
A cry for help. Plus: A cry from the opposite side, a modern Caligula, and more
Told to zip it, Dan Savage does his best to.
Dan Savage calls on an expert to address the etiquette of hosting a girls-only sex party.
Dan Savage advises a soldier who fears mono has permanently affected his sex drive and offers some guidance about munches.
Dan Savage on how to find a good spanker, Jian Ghomeshi and his predilections, and a foursome involving brothers and sisters-in-law.
Dan Savage advises an uncircumcised premature ejaculator, a wannabe cuckolding wife, a horny sexagenarian whose “little brown prince” won’t have sex with him, and more
Dan on Pokemon fetishism, spanking porn, and getting back at your sanctimonious mother.
Dan (and Rob Delaney!) on dating with depression, one-night-stand safety, and diaper play.
A portrait of the artists (OK, that might be a stretch) as 18-year-old porno directors
The Chicago photographer explores the world of fetish.