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Home » gay men

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

Why does a straight cis woman get off on lesbian, gay, trans, and even violent porn?

by Dan Savage March 7, 2018August 18, 2021

“Dansplaining” sexual kinks, and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Are there gay men who occasionally crave pussy?

by Dan Savage August 16, 2017August 18, 2021

Uncle Dan considers this and other burning questions from his grab bag.

"The longer someone like your boyfriend gets away with this kind of assholery, the longer he'll be an asshole.'
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Handling your boyfriend’s jealous assholery

by Dan Savage April 17, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on taming an asshole of a jealous boyfriend, being enough of a man (but not a woman), and recalibrating a ho-hum life in the bedroom.

Posted inArts & Culture

No easy answers in David McConnell’s American Honor Killings

by Sam Worley April 3, 2013August 19, 2021

There are no easy answers in David McConnell’s American Honor Killings. That’s the best thing about it.

The gay sex myth debunked
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Has anybody ever stuffed a gerbil up his ass?

by Dan Savage March 21, 2013August 19, 2021

Vintage Savage Love: On “gerbil stuffing”

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Could my husband’s and my threesome partner have gotten me pregnant with his precome?

by Dan Savage December 22, 2011August 19, 2021

Dan Savage counsels a woman pregnant after a condom-free threesome, a lesbian irate about a post-sex text, and a subordinate gay who likes it hard but is worried.

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