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Home » gay sex

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

Shy gay man seeks secret password to sexual adventure

by Dan Savage June 27, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage recruits an expert to advise a shy gay man who feels he’s stuck on the outside looking in.

Posted inArts & Culture

Fucking Men struggles with onstage intimacy realness

by Max Maller July 11, 2018August 18, 2021

Instead, it settles for some bad fake interpretive-dance sex.

You should definitely take the advice of the PUA ("pickup artist") blogger. But that's only if you wanna be a huge asshole who gets tons of pussy.
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Do I take the advice of a ‘seduction blogger’?

by Dan Savage July 31, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage countermands a pickup artist, offers advice on varying your sex life, and gives a pass to a young guy boning his best friend on the sly.

"Gay men and boys can be successes in life, in love, and in the sack without acing—or even enjoying—anal intercourse."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Dan Savage on anal sex

by Dan Savage April 18, 2012August 19, 2021

Dan rectifies a couple of readers’ attitudes about butt sex

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love, August 20, 2009: Bringing in a third, being that third, organic lube, and more

by Dan Savage August 20, 2009August 19, 2021

Q I just turned 20 and have been out of the closet for a year. A lesbian friend wants to hook me up with her gay friend, let’s call him Kyle, a cute, fit boy who runs track and does theater. The issue is, he’s just 17 and starting his senior year in high school, […]

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love, August 6, 2009: Misleading photos, missing testicles, misinformed lesbians, and more

by Dan Savage August 6, 2009August 19, 2021

Q I met my girlfriend about three months ago on a social-networking Web site. The pictures made her look attractive and in shape. We texted each other nonstop for the first three months. This past weekend we met, and she didn’t look anything like her pictures. However, we did still have sex twice. I’m about […]

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