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Grit & Glitter
To be young, black, gay, and glamorous in Chicago’s ball scene
Savage Love: ‘How do you get spanked wrong?’
Plus: How to please your man when you don’t like anal, a mom is worried about her daughter’s fetish, and more
Savage Love: Dan to Canadian politician: Blow me. Really.
Plus: She feels betrayed when her husband is searching for a three way after her miscarriage, and this time a woman is the MF
Savage Love: The Right to Know About an Abortion
Plus: How to ditch her nutso boyfriend, and why is Tennessee banning the word “gay”?
Yours, Jimmy
Written 60 years ago and rediscovered on eBay, a young gay man’s personal letters become fodder for a new opera.
Savage Love: February 17, 2011
Can cheating save a marriage? How to talk to a shy partner. And, what to do when your “straight” buddy is confused
Deconstructing Rape Myths: On Short Skirts (On Lesbians)
Why rape is not one big misunderstanding.
Why Superbowl Ads Are So Racist, Sexist, and Homophobic
To satisfy the public expectation of shock value without truly offending American sensibilities, Superbowl ads deal in mild racism, sexism, and homophobia.
“No Lesbo”: Girls, “No Homo,” and Lesbians In Hip-Hop
Hip-hop’s “no homo” disclaimer, when extended to women, leads to more misogyny.
The Top 5 Pseudo-Feminist Anthems
The top 5 pop songs that sound empowering to women but aren’t.
The Final Hours of the Washington Blade
Scenes from the sudden closure of the Washington Blade, D.C.’s gay newspaper of record.
Ashley Madison’s Conservative Values
The Ashley Madison has begun courting gays, but it’s just as conservative as ever.
Kosovo: The Musical
Chicago-Kent College of Law professor Hank Perritt has written a musical about the long blood feud between Serbs and Albanian Kosovars.