During a trial over a grisly murder, prosecutors and journalists alike traded in homophobic, sex-negative tropes that some say do a disservice to the victim and the BDSM community.
A reflection on the museum’s storied past and more inclusive future
On commitment, ultimatums, and masturbating into your wife’s used panties
He’s not asking you to be turned into a mummy or used as a urinal.
Apple-polishing, trouble swallowing, and a soft return to “normal.”
Kinky sex can be wonderful, but it won’t fix your relationship.
Brendan Fernandes’s bronze sculptures congeal pain and pleasure.
Learning about your bits just got a little bit more fun.
Advice on avoiding a hypersexual state. Plus: Embracing hyperfeminine presentation, and more.
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
A pelvic floor physical therapist comes to the rescue. Plus: Dan gives advice to a straight woman in love with a gay man.
Dan calls on experts to address insecurity and biphobia. Plus: what to do if kink’s not for you
Dan Savage advises a man whose partner wants to “humiliate” him about his “small pee-pee, and more.”
A guide to choking: Don’t. Plus: the case of the Underpants Pervert, and more
Dan Savage advises a doc in training who has a thing for enemas, and more.