A conversation about kinks
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
After a brief tour of the upper midwest, Dan Savage delves into the queries he didn’t get to.
Whenever folks discuss the great guitarists of the British Invasion, names such as Eric Clapton, George Harrison, and Pete Townshend reliably come up, but one rocker always seems to get short shrift: Dave Davies of the Kinks. I’d argue that Davies is the most influential of them all. The Kinks tunes “You Really Got Me” […]
Dan Savage advises a young woman ensnared by a married Christian Grey, and more.
Dan gets an earful from people whose sex lives improved after the event.
Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.
Is it crazy to be considering a reconciliation? Plus: Is my boyfriend using me for my mattress?
Bands dress up as better bands for Halloween at Cole’s, Gramps the Vamp celebrate their spooky, funky new LP, and more.
Dan on taming an asshole of a jealous boyfriend, being enough of a man (but not a woman), and recalibrating a ho-hum life in the bedroom.
Dan on paying for sex as geezerdom sets in, leading on a fortysomething you find unfuckable, and the etiquette of thrill seeking.
Dan on Pokemon fetishism, spanking porn, and getting back at your sanctimonious mother.
Dan on staying faithful, exploring BDSM without the sex, and embarking on a fantasy facial
Dan on the trolls of online BDSM dating sites, subs dominating, and the expense of a pro dom
Dan (and Rob Delaney!) on dating with depression, one-night-stand safety, and diaper play.