long-term relationships Archives

‘Why do straight guys like anal so much?’ and other questions from live audiences

After a brief tour of the upper midwest, Dan Savage delves into the queries he didn’t get to.

Dan Savage advises a kinky bisexual who thinks of partners only platonically after sex, and more.

Dan on paying for sex as geezerdom sets in, leading on a fortysomething you find unfuckable, and the etiquette of thrill seeking.

Dan fields students’ queries on open relationships, bisexuals, and appropriate uses of whipped cream