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by S. Nicole Lane May 5, 2020August 18, 2021

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"I've never been a fan of real-people pornography, but recently I've found myself indulging in trans-girl porn. Is it insensitive to have a predilection for trans girls?"

Columns & Opinion

Is it insensitive to be attracted to trans women?

by Dan Savage August 21, 2014August 18, 2021

Is it insensitive to be attracted to trans women?

"The criminal-justice system is rough on sex workers generally, and it’s absolutely brutal to trans women who do sex work."

Columns & Opinion

Just make the call

by Dan Savage June 5, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on being an unwilling receptionist for a trans sex worker, showing some patience before jumping into anal sex, and retraining a dick.

"Don't buy into the sexist double standards."

Columns & Opinion

Slut autoshaming

by Dan Savage November 14, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan on slut self-shaming, a misplaced cock ring, and a misleading online lesbian

The gay sex myth debunked

Columns & Opinion

Has anybody ever stuffed a gerbil up his ass?

by Dan Savage March 21, 2013August 19, 2021

Vintage Savage Love: On “gerbil stuffing”

Open arms

Columns & Opinion

Second wind of the cuckold

by Dan Savage February 7, 2013August 18, 2021

Dan on honest cheaters and different ways to orgasm.

Mr. Santorum

Columns & Opinion

Dan Savage sticks it to Rick Santorum

by Dan Savage January 12, 2012August 19, 2021

Dan Savage revisits “Santorum”

Columns & Opinion

Savage Love: October 22, 2009

by Dan Savage October 22, 2009August 19, 2021

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