What to do when a partner is poly under duress or flat-out miserable, and more
Should you just suck it up or what? Plus: not “secretly gay” but “actually bi”
Told to zip it, Dan Savage does his best to.
Yes, you can betray a willing cuckold. Plus: single and sad, the Sondheim cure vindicated
Dan Savage advises a male victim of statutory rape unsure of whether to tell his wife, a 30-year-old married guy with a major sex deficit, and more.
Is it insensitive to be attracted to trans women?
Dan on a marriage’s lifeless sex life, a nephew’s brash advances, and petting around the penis without actually touching it
Dan on indiscretions actual and theoretical
Dan on a deadbeat husband, a thoughtful sex worker, and fucking across party lines
Dan on relationships soured, long-distance, and illicit
Dan on ogling boyfriends, vibrator enthusiastics, and selfish masturbators.
“Coming out” as kinky, gay love on the DL, and more hotel-sheet etiquette
Hotel-sheet etiquette, getting hit on at gay bars, and a guy whose girlfriend bugs him
How do you treat pedophilia before a crime is committed?
Dan Savage counsels victim of poop fetish