Instead of opening your relationship, it might be time to end it.
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
Dan advises a woman whose libido has soared since she went off hormonal birth control, and more.
Dan Savage enlists a doctor for advice on the nether regions, and more.
Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!
Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more
Dan Savage advises a nonbinary person in a polyamorous relationship with two “wonderful” girlfriends who don’t like each other, and more.
Dan Savage on the rules of the game post Weinstein
Plus: When should I and my 34-years-older daddy come out as a couple? and more
Plus: sharing a sub, playing safely on the road
Dan Savage advises a cuckold with a quandary, a girl in love but longing for an open relationship, and a married gay male with a dilemma of his own.
Dan Savage advises a pan-curious newbie, a monogamish man whose open marriage now seems threatening, and more
Dan advises a lovelorn aficionado of puppy play, a woman posthysterectomy, and more
Dan Savage countermands a pickup artist, offers advice on varying your sex life, and gives a pass to a young guy boning his best friend on the sly.
Dan on educating yourself about polyamory, fucking your partner while fantasizing about someone else, and reconsidering the #NotAllMen hashtag.