There’s more to fellatio than just a climax. It’s absolutely frightening, holding something that fragile in between your teeth, and hoping, wishing, praying that you’re perfecting the act— the duty of the illustrious blow job. Comedian and author Jacqueline Novak dives right into those anxieties in her one-woman show, Get on Your Knees. The salaciousness, […]
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Should I treat my throat like a Fleshlight?
Plus, advice for a man who just wants his wife to wear a fake cast.
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Outsource the sloppy and spitty stuff he likes
Plus, a man who misses when the only beards dudes had were metaphorical, masturbation, tinder, rough sex,
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How not to spoil the swingers party
Dan Savage on behaving nicely in sexual settings, and more
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Bring on the Women’s Pleasure Revolution!
A manifesto renouncing male-centered Get It Over With sex, and more.
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Quickies
Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.
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Uncle Dan’s guide to sticky situations
What to do if you’re jealous of your fiance’s best friend—who happens to be his ex—and more.
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‘I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me’
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
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Can a straight guy ethically accept oral sex from his gay buddy?
Dan Savage advises a 24-year-old heterosexual whose long-term relationship deprived him of oral sex for four years.
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‘Could my beautiful bottom boy be turning bi?’
Dan Savage advises a man whose boyfriend, a self-proclaimed gold-star gay, has developed strange new interests, and more.
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Can anal sex cause constipation? and other burning questions
Dan Savage enlists a doctor for advice on the nether regions, and more.
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‘Should I be worried about STDs from oral sex?’
Dan Savage advises a sixtysomething married man on safe sex in gay bathhouses, and more
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Savage Love quickies to bid farewell to 2017
Tidying things up at the end of year, Dan issues two DTMFAs, explains why a man might not want to French-kiss the mouth that just blew him, and more.
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When ‘slaves’ rebel
Is “I’m overwhelmed” the new “It’s not me, it’s you”? Plus: bragging rights, a bad night for BDSM, and more
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A lightning round of answers to questions from Toronto’s Curious Minds Weekend
Dan addresses threesomes, butt plugs, Justin Trudeau, and more.