When an orgasm has unintended consequences
Tag: orgasm
Quickies
Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.
‘Is it OK to give myself permission to give up on partner-based climaxing?’
She’s newly divorced and having the best sex of her life—isn’t that enough? Plus: advice on when to reveal your “kink card,” and more
Three-ways between friends and anxiety-induced orgasms: Here’s why hundreds skipped Stormy Daniels on 60 Minutes
Dan Savage answers questions from a live audience in Michigan the same night as the porn star’s interview.
Do I qualify as asexual?
Dan Savage advises a woman who wonders whether she’s asexual, and more
When your partner is ‘one of those women’
Dan Savage advises a husband frustrated with female sexuality, a lesbian not attracted to transwomen, and a gay guy whose wiring has his insecure partner feeling inadequate.
The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble
Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage
Professor Rahm lectures on contract law
Under fire from the Tribune on interest-rate swaps at CPS, Mayor Rahm tries to explain why investment bankers have more contractual rights than ordinary teachers, firefighters, and cops.
Play ball!
Dan Savage offers a sex-toy tip for the testicle-centric, a new mantra for kinksters, and a few sarcastic words for the clueless.
Fed-up wife seeks enthusiastic oral
Dan advises a married woman desperate for enthusiastic oral and a female victim of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome.
Just make the call
Dan on being an unwilling receptionist for a trans sex worker, showing some patience before jumping into anal sex, and retraining a dick.
Klute, Talk Radio, and other Reader-recommended movies to watch online this week
Reader film capsules guide what you should watch online.
Finger-blast from the past
An archival Savage Love on the importance of the clitoris
Savage Love takes all comers
Dan’s quick Q&A to address various of your . . . needs
The enema within
Dan (joined by Leah Torres) on postmenopausal pleasure, a missing clit, and a wavering interest in kink.