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Home » orgasm

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Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Sometimes I poop accidentally’

by Dan Savage March 11, 2020August 18, 2021

When an orgasm has unintended consequences

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Quickies

by Dan Savage August 21, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Is it OK to give myself permission to give up on partner-based climaxing?’

by Dan Savage September 19, 2018August 18, 2021

She’s newly divorced and having the best sex of her life—isn’t that enough? Plus: advice on when to reveal your “kink card,” and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Three-ways between friends and anxiety-induced orgasms: Here’s why hundreds skipped Stormy Daniels on 60 Minutes

by Dan Savage April 4, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage answers questions from a live audience in Michigan the same night as the porn star’s interview.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Do I qualify as asexual?

by Dan Savage May 28, 2015August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a woman who wonders whether she’s asexual, and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

When your partner is ‘one of those women’

by Dan Savage May 14, 2015August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a husband frustrated with female sexuality, a lesbian not attracted to transwomen, and a gay guy whose wiring has his insecure partner feeling inadequate.

"If hearing about a crazy kink inspired otherwise vanilla types to run out and try it, we’d all be shoving gerbils in our asses."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble

by Dan Savage November 20, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage on clit stimulation, knife play, and other sticking points of consensual bondage

Posted inBlogs

Professor Rahm lectures on contract law

by Ben Joravsky November 14, 2014August 18, 2021

Under fire from the Tribune on interest-rate swaps at CPS, Mayor Rahm tries to explain why investment bankers have more contractual rights than ordinary teachers, firefighters, and cops.

"Your boyfriend's dick works. He just requires a very specific and inconvenient form of stimulus to obtain and sustain that erection."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Play ball!

by Dan Savage August 28, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage offers a sex-toy tip for the testicle-centric, a new mantra for kinksters, and a few sarcastic words for the clueless.

"My husband is a type A professional, and that has played out in the bedroom. He has always been disinterested in my pleasure."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Fed-up wife seeks enthusiastic oral

by Dan Savage August 7, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan advises a married woman desperate for enthusiastic oral and a female victim of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome.

"The criminal-justice system is rough on sex workers generally, and it’s absolutely brutal to trans women who do sex work."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Just make the call

by Dan Savage June 5, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan on being an unwilling receptionist for a trans sex worker, showing some patience before jumping into anal sex, and retraining a dick.

Posted inBlogs

Klute, Talk Radio, and other Reader-recommended movies to watch online this week

by Reader staff May 30, 2014August 18, 2021

Reader film capsules guide what you should watch online.

"The clitoris is not a joy buzzer at the top of the vaginal canal."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Finger-blast from the past

by Dan Savage December 26, 2013August 19, 2021

An archival Savage Love on the importance of the clitoris

"My advice: pick a special occasion and show up in full fuckin' drag."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Savage Love takes all comers

by Dan Savage September 5, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan’s quick Q&A to address various of your . . . needs

"The enema-induced orgasms are fantastic."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

The enema within

by Dan Savage June 27, 2013August 19, 2021

Dan (joined by Leah Torres) on postmenopausal pleasure, a missing clit, and a wavering interest in kink.

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