Kinky sex can be wonderful, but it won’t fix your relationship.
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To fist or not to fist
Dan Savage advises a concerned party whose roommate has strange men over to fist him every day, and more.
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How Lily Be made the local storytelling scene look more like Chicago
“Am I the only Latinx sharing stories right now? Where are the rest of us?”
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When your lobster isn’t extra enough
Savage fields suggestions for another sexual neologism.
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‘I’ve always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me’
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
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‘Help, my otherwise swell boyfriend wants me to kick him in the balls!’
The sex advice columnist answers a grab bag’s worth of problems.
Posted inColumns & Opinion
Uncle Dan, live, uncensored, and back in Chicago!
A homeboy returns for a Q&A on dubious threesomes, open relationships, strap-ons, micropenises, and more.
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Daniel Savage, designer, says break up, pay up, and lie
This week’s guest Dan Savage offers advice on impotence, pegging, and more.
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Play ball!
Dan Savage offers a sex-toy tip for the testicle-centric, a new mantra for kinksters, and a few sarcastic words for the clueless.
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Truly a dick move
Dan on going for the big dick, confronting your hyperconservative mother, and playing poker in the sack.
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Can I get an extension on that?
How cock sheaths measure up. Plus: Yet another reason to dump your asshole boyfriend.
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Weighing mustache and motorcycle rides
Dan on a husband’s kinky fantasy, a May-December romance, and more.
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“You give great head, but you bore me”
Dan on the “problem” of NSA blow jobs, the more real problem of a vengeful ex, and the eternal problem of . . . eternity.
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Folsom Street Blues
Dan on public displays of kink and anal-sex reciprocity