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Home » polyamory

Tag: polyamory

Posted inCity Life

Polyamory during a pandemic

by S. Nicole Lane April 21, 2020August 18, 2021

How to quarantine while dating multiple folks

Posted inColumns & Opinion

No new sex partners

by Dan Savage April 2, 2020August 18, 2021

Open and poly relationships are canceled, unless your lovers live with you.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Built for monogamy

by Dan Savage December 20, 2019August 18, 2021

Instead of opening your relationship, it might be time to end it.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

School for sexual scoundrels

by Dan Savage October 23, 2019August 18, 2021

How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

A life lesson from the great James Baldwin, and more

by Dan Savage October 16, 2019August 8, 2022

Advice on growing up, giving love a chance, and getting rid of Dad’s porn.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Why do straight guys like anal so much?’ and other questions from live audiences

by Dan Savage October 9, 2019August 18, 2021

After a brief tour of the upper midwest, Dan Savage delves into the queries he didn’t get to.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Quickies

by Dan Savage August 21, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

The seven-year yawn

by Dan Savage July 31, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a married young woman what do about her boring vanilla sex life and hankering for BDSM.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Interested in prostate play and faced with a hard pass

by Dan Savage July 24, 2019August 18, 2021

Are there health benefits to prostate stimulation? An expert addresses this and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I saw my employee at my favorite masturbation event!’

by Dan Savage October 17, 2018August 18, 2021

What’s a Jacks-club-loving boss to do? Plus: etiquette for Italian hookups and open marriages

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I’m a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’

by Dan Savage October 10, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag

by Dan Savage August 29, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I WANT SEX all the time, with all sorts of people!’

by Dan Savage August 8, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan advises a woman whose libido has soared since she went off hormonal birth control, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What to do when you’re stuck in a platonic marriage

by Dan Savage June 27, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan advises a wife who’s contemplating getting out of sexless marriage, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Can anal sex cause constipation? and other burning questions

by Dan Savage April 18, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage enlists a doctor for advice on the nether regions, and more.

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