How to quarantine while dating multiple folks
Tag: polyamory
No new sex partners
Open and poly relationships are canceled, unless your lovers live with you.
Built for monogamy
Instead of opening your relationship, it might be time to end it.
School for sexual scoundrels
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
A life lesson from the great James Baldwin, and more
Advice on growing up, giving love a chance, and getting rid of Dad’s porn.
‘Why do straight guys like anal so much?’ and other questions from live audiences
After a brief tour of the upper midwest, Dan Savage delves into the queries he didn’t get to.
Quickies
Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.
The seven-year yawn
Dan Savage advises a married young woman what do about her boring vanilla sex life and hankering for BDSM.
Interested in prostate play and faced with a hard pass
Are there health benefits to prostate stimulation? An expert addresses this and more.
‘Help, I saw my employee at my favorite masturbation event!’
What’s a Jacks-club-loving boss to do? Plus: etiquette for Italian hookups and open marriages
‘Help, I’m a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag
Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.
‘Help, I WANT SEX all the time, with all sorts of people!’
Dan advises a woman whose libido has soared since she went off hormonal birth control, and more.
What to do when you’re stuck in a platonic marriage
Dan advises a wife who’s contemplating getting out of sexless marriage, and more.
Can anal sex cause constipation? and other burning questions
Dan Savage enlists a doctor for advice on the nether regions, and more.