Advice on growing up, giving love a chance, and getting rid of Dad’s porn.
Tag: Porn
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‘Please tell me where I can find my porn!’
How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
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How to deal with sex-shaming family members over the holidays
Dan gives advice to a couple on tumblr, a “free sexual woman,” and the younger half of an age-gap couple, all dreading upcoming gatherings.
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Three-ways between friends and anxiety-induced orgasms: Here’s why hundreds skipped Stormy Daniels on 60 Minutes
Dan Savage answers questions from a live audience in Michigan the same night as the porn star’s interview.
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Guy: My girlfriend wants to be her roommate’s sex slave—and I like it
Dan Savage advises a young man whose girlfriend is masturbating with her roommate’s dirty panties, and more.
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Are there gay men who occasionally crave pussy?
Uncle Dan considers this and other burning questions from his grab bag.
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‘I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me’
What to do. Plus: a “GGG” clarification
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Should a hookup who lied about his HIV status get a second chance?
Dan weighs in. Plus: tips for a sexually frustrated young wife and a sexually frustrated young woman
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Could this be Savage Love’s biggest jerk ever?
Dan tears a 64-year-old a new one. Plus: more advice for the older set
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‘If I find someone who will pay me to suckle my milk, is that prostitution?’
A hard-up single mom inquires. Plus: confidential to Mr. SPOUSE, gay cuckoldry
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An intersex woman’s dilemma
Is it unethical not to disclose the condition? Plus: a porn/real-life mismatch, fun with butt plugs, and more
Posted inBlogs
Exxxotica Chicago, the ‘comic con of porn,’ is secretly more conservative than a Trump rally
Porn and anime made strange bedfellows at the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center.
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All you ever wanted to know about ‘lady spasms’—and not the good kind
Plus: ‘What’s wrong with my sexual fantasies?’
Posted inArts & Culture
The most unassuming diva on the planet shines in The Beautiful Days of Aranjuez
Melissa Lorraine of Theatre Y gets to be herself in this late play by Peter Handke.
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My husband the wanker
Dan Savage advises a woman bothered by her husband’s daily porn habit, a man bothered by his partner’s aversion to oral, and a woman experimenting with neighborly exhibitionism.