Dan advises a disappointed NYC dom, a GGG woman who doesn’t “get” cuckolding, and more
Tag: sexual fantasies
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‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag
Dan Savage weighs in on a friend with benefits giving them without getting them, and more.
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‘Am I dating a psychopath?’
Dan Savage on intimacy with a partner who can’t really “feel,” sexual incompatibility, and more.
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Is it cruel to be cruel in fantasies?
Dan Savage advises a woman aroused by fantasies of humiliating others, and one fed up with her husband’s demands for public sex.
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Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t
Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more
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The key to actualizing sexual fantasies? Acknowledging them.
Plus: An underwear-foot fetish, and a woman wants more from her prudish husband.
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Is it legal to buy someone’s sweaty underwear?
If so, how to broach the subject with a hot young friend in need of funds? Plus: boring sexual secrets, totally un-PC role-play, and more.
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Secular Jew seeks Nazi role-play
Dan Savage advises a Jew with a yen for Nazi role-play with her German boyfriend, and more.
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All you ever wanted to know about ‘lady spasms’—and not the good kind
Plus: ‘What’s wrong with my sexual fantasies?’
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Weighing mustache and motorcycle rides
Dan on a husband’s kinky fantasy, a May-December romance, and more.