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Posted inColumns & Opinion

Stranger things

by Dan Savage January 29, 2020August 18, 2021

A threesome-loving boyfriend respects some guy more than boundaries.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

How not to spoil the swingers party

by Dan Savage November 13, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage on behaving nicely in sexual settings, and more

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Quickies

by Dan Savage August 21, 2019August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a would-be dynamic duo, a wannabe male unicorn, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

‘Help, I saw my employee at my favorite masturbation event!’

by Dan Savage October 17, 2018August 18, 2021

What’s a Jacks-club-loving boss to do? Plus: etiquette for Italian hookups and open marriages

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Can a straight guy ethically accept oral sex from his gay buddy?

by Dan Savage June 20, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a 24-year-old heterosexual whose long-term relationship deprived him of oral sex for four years.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

What to do when someone horns in on all the action at the orgy

by Dan Savage May 23, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage provides a plan of action for a water sports enthusiast, and more.

Posted inBlogs

The two most-read Reader stories of all time both involve major disappointments

by Aimee Levitt March 16, 2018August 18, 2021

What threesomes and coffee have in common.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

One nonbinary person, two girlfriends

by Dan Savage February 15, 2018August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a nonbinary person in a polyamorous relationship with two “wonderful” girlfriends who don’t like each other, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

An anxious poly newbie has panic attacks when the other girl gets more attention

by Dan Savage August 9, 2017August 18, 2021

Dan Savage advises a young woman on her first “trio rodeo,” and more.

Posted inArts & Culture

Aladdin, Marry Me a Little, and ten more stage shows to see now

by Chicago Reader April 26, 2017August 18, 2021

A top-notch touring Broadway show and an intimate Sondheim concept revue are among this week’s notable new productions.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

A lightning round of answers to questions from Toronto’s Curious Minds Weekend

by Dan Savage March 23, 2017August 18, 2021

Dan addresses threesomes, butt plugs, Justin Trudeau, and more.

Posted inColumns & Opinion

Can an aging Casanova settle down?

by Dan Savage April 30, 2015August 18, 2021

When a 31-year age difference isn’t the only problem. Plus: ISO gerontophiles, ‘curious guy’ freak-outs

"Your boyfriend's dick works. He just requires a very specific and inconvenient form of stimulus to obtain and sustain that erection."
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Play ball!

by Dan Savage August 28, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage offers a sex-toy tip for the testicle-centric, a new mantra for kinksters, and a few sarcastic words for the clueless.

"I've never been a fan of real-people pornography, but recently I've found myself indulging in trans-girl porn. Is it insensitive to have a predilection for trans girls?"
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Is it insensitive to be attracted to trans women?

by Dan Savage August 21, 2014August 18, 2021

Is it insensitive to be attracted to trans women?

You should definitely take the advice of the PUA ("pickup artist") blogger. But that's only if you wanna be a huge asshole who gets tons of pussy.
Posted inColumns & Opinion

Do I take the advice of a ‘seduction blogger’?

by Dan Savage July 31, 2014August 18, 2021

Dan Savage countermands a pickup artist, offers advice on varying your sex life, and gives a pass to a young guy boning his best friend on the sly.

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