Dan Savage on intimacy with a partner who can’t really “feel,” sexual incompatibility, and more.
Tag: threesomes
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Savage Love quickies to bid farewell to 2017
Tidying things up at the end of year, Dan issues two DTMFAs, explains why a man might not want to French-kiss the mouth that just blew him, and more.
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Uncle Dan, live, uncensored, and back in Chicago!
A homeboy returns for a Q&A on dubious threesomes, open relationships, strap-ons, micropenises, and more.
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What should the frustrated wife of a man with erectile deficiencies do?
Dan Savage advises a woman in a May-December marriage, and more.
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Open relationships, squirting, big boobs, butt sex, and more
Uncle Dan takes questions from a live audience in Portland
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How to deal with a dick monster
Tips for safe threesomes/moresomes/swingers clubs, etc. Plus: sex out of sync, in-laws out of line
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When there’s incompatibility in the bedroom
Should you just suck it up or what? Plus: not “secretly gay” but “actually bi”
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Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t
Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more
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The perils of Pokémon Go
When gaming is an excuse for neglect. Plus: sneaky facials, sex-worker yick, and more
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‘What do you think of poop play?’ and more
Dan Savage takes further questions from a live audience in Boston.
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How can a self-proclaimed reformed cheater persuade women he’s reformed?
Dan Savage advises a reformed cheater—and an unreformed and unrepentant one.
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Brave new (genderfluid) world
Dan Savage offers a few tips for coping with the host of new gender identities, and advises a parent whose daughter has come out as asexual.
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The perils of polyamory
Dan Savage advises an erstwhile poly partner who now wants monogamy, an accidental polysexual, and a sulky spouse with a “post-mononormative” wife.
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Handling your boyfriend’s jealous assholery
Dan on taming an asshole of a jealous boyfriend, being enough of a man (but not a woman), and recalibrating a ho-hum life in the bedroom.
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“Can you come out your butt?”
Dan takes questions from students at Radford University