How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
Dan gives advice to a couple on tumblr, a “free sexual woman,” and the younger half of an age-gap couple, all dreading upcoming gatherings.
The Ghost Network packs anarchy, architectural theory, investigative journalism, and pop music into three mysteries for the price of one.
A long-overdue collection of Jessica Hopper’s music writing plants a flag for female rock critics and shows the evolution of a distinctive voice into a well-known byline.
Dan Savage advises a timid lover, a deprived bottom, and a habitual wearer of bras, panties, and stockings, gender unknown.
Dan Savage offers a few tips for coping with the host of new gender identities, and advises a parent whose daughter has come out as asexual.
Brooklyn band Go Deep want their stolen gear back, the Whistler gives away the last of 1,000 free LPs, and more.
Our favorite restaurants of 2013: From suburban ramen to west-side barbecue to tiki time in River North
Odd Future’s most mysterious member returns with a casually brilliant second album.
Current musical obsessions of Bare Mutants vocalist Jeanine O’Toole, and Eternals front man Damon Locks
Dan on STIs, long-distance commitments, and easier anal play.
Following Grimes’s Tumblr pays off yet again.
Current musical obsessions of RedEye columnist Ernest Wilkins, editor Ned Hepburn, and more
We’re going public with the food porn you leaked on Instagram.
Dan on men who like men in drag.