How Tumblr’s ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn’t need a “spotter” at a swinger party.
Tag: Tumblr
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How to deal with sex-shaming family members over the holidays
Dan gives advice to a couple on tumblr, a “free sexual woman,” and the younger half of an age-gap couple, all dreading upcoming gatherings.
Posted inArts & Culture
The Ghost Network gives you three mysteries for the price of one
The Ghost Network packs anarchy, architectural theory, investigative journalism, and pop music into three mysteries for the price of one.
Posted inArts & Culture
A long-overdue collection of Jessica Hopper’s music writing plants a flag for female rock critics
A long-overdue collection of Jessica Hopper’s music writing plants a flag for female rock critics and shows the evolution of a distinctive voice into a well-known byline.
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Advice for the milquetoast missionary man
Dan Savage advises a timid lover, a deprived bottom, and a habitual wearer of bras, panties, and stockings, gender unknown.
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Brave new (genderfluid) world
Dan Savage offers a few tips for coping with the host of new gender identities, and advises a parent whose daughter has come out as asexual.
Posted inMusic
Gossip Wolf: Brooklyn band Go Deep want their stolen gear back
Brooklyn band Go Deep want their stolen gear back, the Whistler gives away the last of 1,000 free LPs, and more.
Posted inFood & Drink
Our favorite restaurants of 2013
Our favorite restaurants of 2013: From suburban ramen to west-side barbecue to tiki time in River North
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Stream Earl Sweatshirt’s Doris now. Do it.
Odd Future’s most mysterious member returns with a casually brilliant second album.
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In Rotation: Jeanine O’Toole of Bare Mutants on how to commemorate Jerry Garcia’s deathiversary
Current musical obsessions of Bare Mutants vocalist Jeanine O’Toole, and Eternals front man Damon Locks
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Does sex cause STIs?
Dan on STIs, long-distance commitments, and easier anal play.
Posted inBlogs
The uncanny choreography of World Order
Following Grimes’s Tumblr pays off yet again.
Posted inMusic
In Rotation: Ned Hepburn of Death and Taxes on the awesomeness of the new Daft Punk album
Current musical obsessions of RedEye columnist Ernest Wilkins, editor Ned Hepburn, and more
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We asked, you showed us #wherechieats
We’re going public with the food porn you leaked on Instagram.
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“Stop cock-in-frock-blocking your friend”
Dan on men who like men in drag.