Dan Savage advises a married young woman what do about her boring vanilla sex life and hankering for BDSM.
Tag: vanilla sex
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Live from San Fran, it’s an uninhibited Savage Love Q&A!
Semen from a spoon, an effluence named for Donald Trump, and more
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Boundary disputes
Dan on navigating the precarious friends-with-benefits boundaries, getting off without having to get on top, and compromising with your wife about your lingerie fetish.
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Keeping the faith
Dan on staying faithful, exploring BDSM without the sex, and embarking on a fantasy facial
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Septuagenarian seeks submissive sex
Dan on adventuring after marriage—and sex after 70.
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Yes we cane
Dan on public masturbation, canning vs. caning, and Fifty Shades of Grey
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Squirting next to/in front of/on your boyfriend
Dan on handling hookups, plus being comfortable enough to squirt on your boyfriend