Your wife’s pleasure comes before what happens in the shower.
Dan gets an earful from people whose sex lives improved after the event.
Even if you have, there’s still a lot to think about.
Dan Savage advises a foot fetishist in the grips of a false dichotomy, a young Italian after his friend’s bi girlfriend, and a bi minor in need of some metamedical counsel.
Dan on divergent libidos, cuckolding fantasies, and love that (literally) burns.
Dan on STIs, long-distance commitments, and easier anal play.
Sunday: Previews and live coverage of every band at Pitchfork
Dan on sibling sex solicitation, uncharacteristic attraction, and doing BDSM wrong to get it right.
Dan on men who like men in drag.
Don’t fear the poopnoodle.
Working on a relationship or relationship work…oh wait, it’s working hard or hardly working.